You need to find your own style. I'm not hating. It's called criticism. Hating is not being able to defend what you're saying, by just bashing. You try so hard to be like those "indie" bands, thats not you, be yourself. find your own style without boasting about how "different" you are from other people.
Huh? I am being myself. What makes you think I’m not? Who are you? Obviously, you know me quite a bit. I don’t post my life up on tumblr so, I might have you on Facebook or Twitter. Anyway, you’re right there is a line between criticism and bashing and by your tone and the words you’re putting together it is definitely bashing. Why don’t you stop being an Anon and reveal yourself, okay? :)